Are you a dating single looking for relationship advice that will help you create a lasting romance? Are you tired of the dating world, tired of being single, and longing to have a relationship that lasts more than a season?.Would you like to find someone to love for the rest of your life? Here is some relationship advice that will help you find and build an enduring connection:.Push yourself out of your comfort zone..
If you want to find the love of your life, you are going to have to go out to places and events where you can meet people. You may find your Special One when you are socializing, OR--you may find the people who will introduce you to the person you are looking for. Either way, you are going to have to reach beyond your current comfort level of interacting and talk to people you don't know. Share who you are and be friendly.Be clear about who you are looking for..
It is important to know what you want. If you do not enjoy children, do not linger talking to someone who has young children. If you do not like dogs, do you really want to spend time with someone who owns a kennel? Why encourage a relationship you know is doomed from the start? Getting what and who you want starts with knowing yourself and your requirements.Pay attention to your communication skills.
.Most people who instigate a relationship breakup say the number one reason they left is because the other person did not listen. Your significant other wants your full attention when they are talking to you. You cannot be watching the computer screen or listening to the TV in the background or responding to your cell phone.
Put everything on hold and listen when they are talking. To listen to someone is to show that you care about what they are thinking and feeling. Listening builds a bond.Be in the now..Did you ever notice that when you are talking to others, they are either re-living moments from the past, or rhapsodizing about the future? Living in the present takes awareness.
Pay attention to where your focus is and bring it to the now. If you do, you will be emotionally more available which makes it possible to grow a relationship of substance.Expect to have some differences to work through..To look for a relationship where you never have a difference of opinion is to set yourself up for failure. We come together in relationships to grow as human beings and to learn things we could never learn on our own.
Sometimes, there can be some emotionally difficult times. Knowing that beforehand can save you from confusion or disappointment. Help is out there for individuals and couples who want to work through major issues.Don't settle for less than who you want..
Many relationships don't last because they were never meant to be in the first place. People get scared of being alone or are afraid that someone better is never going to come along--so, they "settle". If you are settling for someone you know is not really who you want, you are setting yourself up for a relationship failure.Do you want a great relationship? If you are single and dating, pay attention to the above words of advice if you want to find and stay with your soul mate..Visit http://www.
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By: Tonja Weimer